Anonymous

Hi! you have an awesome blog :) I know this is random, especially since I'm a new follower, but I just wanted to ask for advice... There's this guy I really like and he's already told me tons of times that he likes me too. He even hinted about wanting to be my bf. We've talked everyday for the past two months, but then out of the blue, he stops responding to my messages. It's like he's forgotten I exist... What do you think about this? :(

So weird. Could be a variety of reasons… but I’d just stop texting him and move on. Or at least make it look like you’ve moved on.

You have to let him know (not in a direct way) that if he thinks you’re the kind of person who doesn’t have any options in the dating world - he is fucking wrong. You have lots of suitors, he can’t just be sporadic with his messaging etc. 

xo

Of course I am not worried about intimidating men. The type of man who will be intimidated by me is exactly the type of man I have no interest in.

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie  

Words to live by.

I read that article yesterday about how that conservative republican WOMAN spoke out against the equal pay regime in American because SHE thinks women earning the same as men will stop us from being able to find a husband.

I mean… what? On so many levels! First of all, any man who thought less of me because I had a great career and earned great money is not worth a second of my time. 

Second of all - everything we do is to attract a husband… right? I couldn’t possibly want to be successful in my career for myself… could I? 

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